Before having to actually raise a child, most of the parents out there think it will probably be a piece of cake. After all what’s the worst that could happen? It’s just a child, a helpless little baby who needs their parents to take care of them, who is all smiles and laughter in the day and a snoozing little teddy bear at night, right? Well, not exactly. Before making such a huge investment in their lives, people generally don’t know how difficult it is being a parent. Even the mildest and sweetest of children has at one time been a web of challenges for their parents. One such challenge is children’s anger. Almost none of the parents who are planning for a first child anticipate that such a sweet little thing can express the emotion of anger and when they do face it, they usually have no idea how to deal with it.
The first thing that one needs to know about children’s anger management is that ‘Anger in a child is a healthy show of emotion’. People are often alarmed at a child who shows emotion and gets angry but this is one of the most important phases of growing up. There is not one child in the world that has never shown emotion but going through the mature phases and experience of adulthood, many parents seem to have forgotten the anguished and frustrated feelings that they used to experience as a child and seeing a child act like children do, alarms the parent to no extent. In many cases, the simplest show of raw feelings has parents running to the doctors’ office with questions like, ‘is this normal?’, ‘will he be a rebellious adult?’, ‘will he be an abusive parent?’, or the all famous ‘what have we done wrong?’
These, you see, are all the wrong questions. It is normal to want to know that you are doing everything perfectly and also to ensure that your child is healthy but all these questions are simply a ton of fuss that you do not need. Here are some tips for you to remember while dealing with children’s anger in a way that ends up beneficial for both you and the little one.
- Hold him by the chin and treat him like an adult:
- Take him out to an open space:
- Encourage them to scream it off:
- Have them chase you around the house running around and clapping their hands. Or make them do it alone:
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